One thing that gets on my nerves...
LIKE FOR REAL!
Is the idea that people think that all women that are overweight are desperate and/or insecure....
I understand there is correlation with weight gain and low self esteem. I get it. Regardless of that, just because she smiled at you and laughed at your corny joke...does not mean she wants you.
You may not have noticed but she has eyes and a brain just like you and you may not be her type! You might just be as unattractive to her as she is to you. Right.
Secondly, don't pity her like its the end of the world and if she loses the weight...she will remember...